If things are as good as you say why mess them up for a cheap thrill? Unless there is more to this that you are afraid or suppressing.
Have a honest talk with your husband and try counselling....if this is not enough then you have some tough choices to make.
The hardest of which many of us on this board for any number of reasons choose not to do ......is let go of the ones we say we love and would never hurt by continuing our not so noble actions.
Wow! I am JUST reading this!! 8 years later!! To be honest, I’m not sure which post led you to believe that things were good with Angry Guy. We’ve since divorced and more recently he passed away. We believe he may have been struggling with some form of depression before, during and after our marriage. He flat out refused help including counseling while we were married. My prowling was me acting out in a desperate search for attention. It’s not something I’m proud of but at the same time I have no regrets. I learned so much during these years and am a better person having gone through it.
I appreciate your comment, R. I only wish I’d seen it sooner.
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If things are as good as you say why mess them up for a cheap thrill? Unless there is more to this that you are afraid or suppressing.
Have a honest talk with your husband and try counselling....if this is not enough then you have some tough choices to make.
The hardest of which many of us on this board for any number of reasons choose not to do ......is let go of the ones we say we love and would never hurt by continuing our not so noble actions.
Wow! I am JUST reading this!! 8 years later!! To be honest, I’m not sure which post led you to believe that things were good with Angry Guy. We’ve since divorced and more recently he passed away. We believe he may have been struggling with some form of depression before, during and after our marriage. He flat out refused help including counseling while we were married. My prowling was me acting out in a desperate search for attention. It’s not something I’m proud of but at the same time I have no regrets. I learned so much during these years and am a better person having gone through it.
I appreciate your comment, R. I only wish I’d seen it sooner.
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