I’ve been thinking a lot about sinning lately. It’s
that time of the year where in my faith we do that. Also, a few different
blogging buddies made comments that made me think about it.
Now that Kitty is single, I really don’t consider
what I do as “sinning”. I’m going to try to explain my thought process but this
may or may not sound logical so bear with me.
The way I look at it is that the men I have been
with are pretty decent guys. They don’t lie about being married in fact as far
as I know; they don’t lie to me at all. In reality they have no reason to lie
to me. I’m not their wife and I’m not their mother. Most of the guys I see that
are married are a hell of a lot nicer than some of the single guys I have seen.
As far as the married guys…well the way I see it is
that they are doing what they need to do to keep their families intact and keep
their sanity at the same time. I’ve been where they are. I couldn’t keep up the
charade but I do give them credit for continuing to do what is best for their
families and of course Kitty would never interfere with that.
So maybe Kitty’s logic is warped but in today’s
world we have to do whatever it takes to get through and if it means sneaking
away for a few hours of bliss with Kitty well…who am I to judge ;)