Tuesday, August 20, 2013

What a Difference A Year Makes

The other day several women I work with were complaining. I said to them “where were you this time last year?” One was battling breast cancer and had no hair. The second had just lost her father. I was in the midst of a lot of drama with Angry Guy.

Shortly after that I received an email from XXX. He’s back together with his wife and it seems as though she is back to her same cunt self. He was whining about it all the while telling me how they were buying a new expensive house together. I emailed back “where were you this time last year?”

In XXX’s case things are never going to get better. He is stuck in the frame of mind where he wants to be with this woman who is “one of the popular girls” even though she is rotten to the core. As far as I am concerned he deserves what he gets and I have told him this. She is never going to change.

I can always tell that things are not going well with him because on the surface of course everything looks like a fantasy. He’s back together with his wife. They are buying a big expensive house. Everything is going well it seems. But when things are shitty for XXX and he is back together with his wife he cops an attitude with me…an attitude that I no longer indulge. He becomes condescending and pompous.

At any rate, in the midst of reminding everyone to look back for a brief moment at how their lives have changed for the better over the past year, I decided to do the same.
Kitty although not playing with anybody at the moment has never felt better physically, emotionally or spiritually. I no longer have the weight of Angry Guy on my shoulders and he seems like he is actually doing well too!

Would I like to get laid more? Has my blog taken a hit from lack of material? OF COURSE! But I look at it this way…when Angry Guy and I were together I was getting laid by random strangers some of whom were potentially dangerous. Let’s face it; Angry Guy had no interest in sex with Kitty at all. So at least there is potential for Kitty. Kitty hopes to find someone someday who can satisfy my sexual appetite and believe me I WILL be writing about it. But in the meantime Kitty is enjoying all the wonderful things that have happened in just one year.


Simplicity said...

That's a great attitude to have...one I could better use to my benefit. Great post! Thanks for sharing.

Advizor54 said...

I'll add my voice to Simplicity's. A great post, wonderful progress, and a healthy attitude.

I'll have to think about it myself now. :-)

~McK said...

great reminder to look back and of course, perspective. you will meet that person kitty, I just know it!

Chashunk said...

Sometimes one just has to take a break, reflect, regroup, and move forward stronger