The other
day I had to come clean to my sister. We are not particularly close which is a
shame. I actually have several sisters. We are civil to one another for my
mother’s sake but it’s doubtful we will maintain contact once my mother has
passed. Part of me is sad about that but then I remember that when I divorced
my first husband each and every one of my sisters ducked and covered. Not one
of them supported me. No problem. I obviously survived and THRIVED.
So this time
around I told my sister just so that my mother would not feel uncomfortable
keeping a secret. I couldn’t decide how or when to tell her so the other day
when she emailed me I went that route. I just sent her a quick and casual
email. It was kind of like “the weather here is great and Angry Guy and I are
splitting up.”
Sure enough
she called and left a voicemail for me. When I called her back she was
supportive on the surface. In other words she was trashing Angry Guy and
rooting me on. The funny thing is with my sisters, I never know whether they
root me on like this because they are truly happy for me or because they WANT
me to fail.
I never used
to feel this way. I would do just about anything for my sisters. I would really
support them if one of them chose to leave their husbands. I am happy for their
successes and sad for their losses. The fact that they don’t feel the same for
me doesn’t bother me anymore.
And so now
the truth is out…well…SOME of the truth.
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