Wednesday, July 11, 2012

Wishy Washy

I just received a text from XXX. He and his wife were supposed to get their divorce finalized today…but they didn’t. He said they both showed up to court and they both “balked” and then…


When I think about it, this really has nothing to do with me. I assure you Kitty WILL be signing those papers. Oh sure, I am sad. Don’t get me wrong. But when I think of living just one more day the way I was living…well…it’s just NOT GOING TO HAPPEN!

Even though this thing with XXX doesn’t affect me one way or another, it does make me think. Why are people so wishy washy? I mean I am tough, I know. But when I make a choice, I own it. It is particularly unappealing to me when I come across women and men in particular that can’t make a decision and stick to it. To me it would be like living in limbo constantly.

At this point XXX doesn’t know if he is divorced or not. I wonder what his new girlfriend thinks about that.


Anonymous said...

I know what you mean, I get annoyed with the indecisiveness of people at times too.

I don't know what it's like to go through a divorce or anything like that, but I would guess people who are a little indecisive become a lot indecisive when emotions like that are involved.

Maybe they needed another day or two, before they make it really final. To kind of decide again I guess.

Hopefully his new GF is understanding.

surftoy said...

For some life is one long indecision

Tom said...

Oh boy. Sooner or later he'll realize taking the easy way out just makes things tougher in the long run... hopefully he'll figure out what he wants.