So I finally
heard from J-Date guy. I have to think of a name for him. He’s one of these
guys that has a lot of side businesses and is a wheeler and dealer. Not
typically my type but let’s face it, I’m not looking for a husband so if I get
a few fun evenings out of it then I am in!
When I think
about it Ashley Madison really HAS helped me in this new arena. There seem to
be so many people on these dating websites that are desperate to “find the one”.
I don’t think I will EVER want just one. And so, my secret life will continue.
In my opinion if you are “dating” and if Kitty chooses to have another “friend”
that’s not cheating. Others may disagree. Don’t get me wrong, I am not trying
to pretend that I am not a prowler or a “cheater”. Yes, I cheated on my husband
and would have continued to do so had I not found the opportunity to end our
marriage.
So J-Date
Guy called me yesterday. He is into talking on the phone as opposed to texting
or email. This sucks for Kitty because I have a ton of shit going on around here
and I hardly have time to chat on the phone for hours at a time. But since this
guy is so cute in his pictures and has such a sexy voice I decided to indulge him.
He is older
than me but not TOO old. He’s Hammer’s age I think only Hammer comes across as
much younger. Jewish guys act old even when they are not. J-Date Guy is a
talker. He talks and talks and talks, which drives me crazy. The interesting
thing is at one point in the conversation he used the word “fuck”. I repeated
what he said and also used the word “fuck”. He immediately notified me that he
is turned on by a woman who uses profanity. DING DING DING DING!!! Here I am!!!
The
conversation at this point began to turn toward sex. Kitty has no problem with
that. Now Kitty has two skeletons in my closet in this new dating arena. 1.
This is my second marriage that is breaking up. That’s a red flag for any guy
looking for a long term relationship and/or marriage. I have tried to work it
into the conversations relatively early on to get it out there. Although XXX says that I shouldn't. 2. I cheated on
my husband…A LOT. Now that’s a biggie and one I choose to keep to myself. Yes,
Naughty Kitty has decided to maintain my anonymity.
So J-Date
Guy began asking me when the last time I had a great “make-out” session with my
husband. I told him “years”. Technically this is true. Then he said “So I would
be your FIRST?” There was a part of me that WANTED to come clean. In the back
of my head there was a video running of all the men I have been with over the
past several months. There was a part of me that was thinking about and
yearning for Hammer.
I held my
breath and closed my eyes and half heartedly said “Yes”. He seemed pleased. He
seemed honored and admittedly turned on. I rationalized it in my head that he
actually MIGHT be the first after Angry Guy and I officially split.
The
interesting thing about this part of the conversation is that he was fascinated
with my openness about sex. He was excited about my love for the act. He told me
that Jewish women have a reputation for not wanting to “please their man”. I
assured him that I do not feel that way and I don’t.
So this
thing with J-Date Guy may be interesting. But in the meantime I have come to
the conclusion that Naughty Kitty and my secret life are here to stay.
1 comment:
Because you really believed we thought you were going anywhere? Lol! I have a good feeling that this will be a really great journey you will take us on!!
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