I wonder sometimes if I sabotaged my marriage to get away from prowling. I mean let’s face it I wasn’t very good at it…or maybe I was TOO good. I finally found that special someone but then things at home became intolerable. I listened to my gut and things are starting to come together now.
Angry Guy has come to terms with things. He even made a comment about falling out of love with me long ago. He may have just said it to hurt me but I suspected this for years. Either way I am good with it. I don’t want to hurt him but this is all for the best.
Kitty is CLEARLY not cut out to be married and I have assured all of my friends and family that the third time is NOT a charm for me. I have decided to change my name back to my maiden name once again. My maiden name is rather ethnic and in all honesty it’s not just a name, it is an attitude and it reminds me of my father who I miss terribly.
Angry Guy and I began meeting with the mediator this week. She said if we did our homework we could be divorced by the end of the year. This is a lot faster than I expected but I am beginning to embrace it. What a nice way to start off the New Year. Oh I am sure the holidays may be rough but as long as Angry Guy behaves himself I have invited him for family time for the holidays and here and there during the week. Kitty wants her fun time as well. Angry Guy is not too keen on having our kids sleep at his new place but Kitty is going to INSIST. WTF?!!?! Is it me or is he always trying to control me???
He asked me to respect him by not dating officially or “taking a lover” until after he leaves the house. Since the kids are out of school, Hammer is busy and I have a future of freedom to look forward to I have agreed.
There is a lot to do to find a place for Angry Guy and to help him get on his feet. It’s worth it to me because in the end I will happily be “Single Kitty”.