Wednesday, January 18, 2012

The 7 Year Rule

Big Cheese and I were in the office talking about our upcoming weekend. A friend of his who is single is coming to visit him. We began talking about this friend who likes to date younger women…MUCH younger…like 30-40 YEARS younger.

Now Kitty is not an ageist and is not judging this guy at all. In fact Big Cheese is the one who made the comment “What could he possibly have in common with these girls?” I happen to agree with Big Cheese and not just because he pays me to.

Personally I don’t go for younger guys. Oh, I joke about it…A LOT but when push comes to THRUST I love an older man. I know, I know…no secret there. On my way home from work I was going through the men I have been with and I think the oldest was 57. Can I tell you that he was pretty fucking amazing?!?!?

Okay, Kitty is getting excited and off track. So Big Cheese was telling me that he has a “7 Year Rule”. Big Cheese doesn’t date anybody more than 7 years older or 7 years younger than he is. The funny thing is that I don’t see Big Cheese ever dating a woman 7 years OLDER than he is but I know that his current girlfriend is exactly 7 years younger. By the way, in case you are wondering, I am 14 years younger than Big Cheese and well out of his 7 year rule range.

So I just wanted to share this with all of you and possibly get your input. As I said, I love older men both in the bedroom and out of the bedroom. Younger men are WAY fun to play with but after that….


Ryan Beaumont said...

That is probably a good rule of thumb. I don't think it has to affect a fling but a relationship outside those boundaries are tough unless one is simply immature or an old soul. That being said my sister in law has a great marriage to my brother in law who is about 15 years older. I on the other hand am 5 years older than my wife and we fight like cats and dogs!

Naughty Kitty said...

I know several couples where the man is quite a bit older. One of my relatives was nearly 20 years older than his wife. She now acts like an old lady. That is an isolated incident. I typically think of age as a number and yes for a fling I have no boundaries. The 57 year old I mentioned had more stamina than my husband in his early 30's.