Thursday, September 8, 2011

What the Hell is Going on Here?

I know it’s been a while since I have been “out there”,dating, fucking, whatever you want to call it. When I was dating I think monogamy was the trend, and then experimenting with lesbians became all the rage. Soon threesomes came about and now apparently ANAL pleasure is HERE!

Hey, I am not judging. BELIEVE ME! I am totally open to it thanks to G. Thank you again, G. Listen, we have to stop this because G’s ego is going to explode from all the praise I give him.

Anyway, I’ll admit that I was a little turned off when someone said they might want me to wear a strap-on for them. Again, I am not judging I just happen to like being the “woman” in bed for lack of a better description. I do not like dominating in any way and wearing the strap on would make me like a man wouldn’t it?

Well, that’s neither here nor there. My point is that I am not opposed to exploring the anal side of things and the more and more men I talk to the more I am realizing that not only do they enjoy giving anal sex but they enjoy their own assholes to be stimulated.

Again, NOT JUDGING here! I am happy for the heads up and I have to thank my bloggin’ buddy Kat for posting a blog which included a description of how she did it and drove a man wild. Well guess what? After reading that it made me actually want to TRY it.

What are your thoughts on this?


Advizor54 said...

Year's ago my best friend's husband asked her to wear a strap on and fuck him. She freaked out and said no and she never let go of that request. now, with anal being an acceptable part of the sexual lexicon, to reverse it, and give it to a man, seems less "gay" and more mainstream. And I say that in a good way, where men can explore more of their needs than before. I've thought about it, just haven't asked for it yet.

JerZey Girl said...

It's not the anal attention that I's the idea of wearing a faux penis and getting behind a man. Something to aim for I suppose but I am just not there yet.

And not freaking out just not there yet.

philaesq said...

Having my asshole stimulated is an amazing feeling!!! Doesn't happen enough!!! I don't know if I would take a dildo back there... You should give anal a try- just go slow with it! Lube is recommended, but not necessary. I have not used lube during my last three anal encounters, but i went EXTREMELY slow. Once all the way, I just kind of parked my cock and rubbed her pussy. Feels good for everyone!

JerZey Girl said...

Clitoral stimulation is a must!I am not even so sure I feel as strongly against using a dildo on a man as the whole strap on thing. In time grass-hoppa, in time.

Marcus said...

I'd be up for whatever. I get excited anytime fingers hint and wandering close to down there. So, whether it was a hand held dildo or a strap on would be fine with me!

Glad to hear you are contemplating it. Guys get turned on by the thought of an open minded woman.