Thursday, April 19, 2012

And With the Click of a Button…

Every now and then Kitty has an admirer. Sadly they come and go. Kitty is immune to it by now. That makes me sad. I used to really get wet over my admirers. Oh Ben, I know you are going to ask me if I get mildly damp or soaking wet. Well, there was a point where I got extremely wet and now I just wait for the day that they lose interest. I can see the signs now. Like I said, it makes me sad to be so cynical.
Recently I had what I thought was an admirer. He initiated contact. He read my blog and commented. Then we began communicating via email. We even met in person once. He emailed me after that and told me he was attracted to me and wanted to get to know me. He said he wanted to make me his "mistress". It figures that when I told him that I was attracted to him I never heard from him again. I figured he was busy. He travels a lot for work but still…I noticed that he logged onto Ashley Madison and Yahoo and yet weeks went by and I didn’t get any kind of email from him or any sign that he wanted to keep in touch.

Today I noticed that he left a message on yahoo for SOMEONE. I have no idea who but it was obviously some sort of signal. Of course I emailed Ben who jokingly said “there are many men who have proven to you that they are closely related to dogs or pigs”.
Then without even thinking I clicked that little “X” next to the “admirer’s” name on Yahoo and deleted him. Suddenly he was gone. Later I logged onto Ashley Madison and saw that he was logged on as well. So you have time to log onto Ashley Madison but you have no time to email Kitty? I clicked that little “X” next to his name on my Ashley Madison favorites list and with the click of a button he is gone from my life forever.

Don’t fuck with Naughty Kitty. I have no patience for nonsense.

13 comments:

SexyBrownEyes said...

Kitty, It's almost as if I wrote this post! Thank you for writing what I want to say!!

Naughty Kitty said...

You're welcome. You may REALLY like tomorrow's post which is along the same lines.

Ben said...

Kitty, my viewpoint is that you need to find men who are farther down the path in separating their need for sex from wanting to be married to their wives. Those men will not be whining about their wives. Either they can compartmentalize and prowl on their own, or they are beyond caring about the wife, and can focus on "you you you".

Naughty Kitty said...

I thought this one was farther down the path. He's older...kids grown. It's just not here for me ben. Men just don't GET me. But I do agree with you about sticking with older men.

The Missus said...

I agree with SexyBrownEyes....it's like I just read what happens to me! Great post, and I've X'd admirers out of my life too!

Anonymous said...

I tend to disagree about the "older" men comment. I don't know what you mean by older, but I tend to think you might better off with a younger man. If it is just something casual, a scratching a mutual itch, a younger man might be more appealing to you. Just something for you to consider, of course it could always be discussed further.

Naughty Kitty said...

Nah, younger is not the solution for Kitty. And no, I am looking for a long term friend. Men my age and younger have young kids and lots and lots of distractions.

Anonymous said...

I can understand where you're coming from. As someone who has always found something special in "older" women, I can see your perspective. There is certainly more drama with someone that has young children, and there is probably less free time as well. I guess it really all depends on the person and both people agreeing at the outset what you want out of the relationship. Either way, I enjoy your posts and always find them intriguing/insightful.

Naughty Kitty said...

I couldn't have said it better myself. Also, I have to say that as Ben pointed out in another post, older men know what they want and seem over all more relaxed with the whole situation. I am finding the younger men are "green". They are trying to get even with their wives. They have doubts after the sex. They have guilt sometimes and in T-Bone's case they are stupid and don't cover their tracks. They don't delete texts, emails,photos etc. At any rate I know other women prefer younger men. My preference happens to be older men.

More importantly, thanks for reading and always thanks for your input...oh and thanks for kissing Kitty's ass. I LOVE that!

Anonymous said...

You are probably right about the carelesness. Younger guys might be less careful due to lack of practice and/or the inability to pay attention long enough to not get caught with their pants down, pun intended. I think you'll find your right guy though. And when you do, he'll be a luck "older" guy. As for ass kissing, well there's nothing wrong with a little ass play from time to time....

Naughty Kitty said...

Kitty loves that too ;)

Anonymous said...

kitty is just a woman after my very own, well you know...

Ben said...

Kitty -- Looking forward to nipping your ass, and to some butt loving too.