I suppose part of the prowling scene is the venting between lovers regarding their spouses. I typically don’t vent a lot. My home life is pretty good aside from lack of good sex. I have heard on several occasions from lovers and prospective lovers that their wives act badly or treat them badly. Sometimes I even receive emails telling me that they fucked their wives the night before or WHATEVER. These men open up to Kitty. And while there is a part of me that feels honored that these men feel comfortable enough to open up to me, there is another part of me that does not know how to respond.
Take for example T-Bone. He tells me just about everything. Since I know him in person I have become very protective of him and his feelings. When he tells me stories about how mean his wife is I never know whether I should insult her which is what I feel like doing or be more nonchalant. I can’t help putting myself in her place and thinking “If I were married to T-Bone…” now don’t get me wrong. I am not fantasizing about being married to T-Bone. I am simply looking at the wonderful lifestyle that he provides for his seemingly ungrateful wife and it makes me angry that she acts so disrespectfully. T-Bone is just one example mind you. I hear stories from several men.
Another thing is how to react when a man emails me that he fucked his wife the night before. Do I respond “Good for you?” Do I respond “Mazol Tov”??? What??? Because even though it shouldn’t, it sort of hurts a little that as bad as these men seem to have it, they still manage to get some sort of sex from their wives and believe me I KNOW they enjoy it which brings up the question “Why do you even NEED Kitty?”