The other
day was a gorgeous day here. I met a few friends at the beach to let the dogs
romp in the water. One of my friends is the wife of a prominent doctor. She was
talking about a black tie event that she and her husband were attending. I
couldn’t help but wonder. Is her husband a cheater? He’d be a great catch. I
have thought about this before but today I was really watching her and
listening to the way she talked about him. Did she take him for granted? Does
she fuck him the way he really wants to be fucked?
And if he is
having an affair is he good to his mistress or does he treat her badly? What is
she going to be doing while he is at this black tie event with his wife? I am
not sure why I am thinking about these women today. Maybe I feel guilty for all
the women who I may have hurt by fucking their husbands. Maybe I feel bad for
the mistresses because I am among them. Maybe, like Bad Boy always reminds me,
I am not a wolf. I am not cut out to be a mistress…or maybe I am.
5 comments:
I think that is the #1 reason a man would wonder, "Taken for Granted" and always expecting him to just do it all, without any Sex... I think you hit the nail on the head Kitty...
Me
C'mon Kitty.....yes if the wives found out about you then you'd have contributed to their hurt, but it's the husbands who are directly guilty.
So, assuming they haven't found out, I don't think you need beat yourself up about it.
Life is complicated, people are complicated, marriage is complicated. All you can do is do the best you can (which I think you have done in your marriage), accept responsibility for your choices, and try to be kind.
BTW, how fun to walk on the beach with the dogs. Here, the beach patrol gives you a ticket if you do that. :-(
Your doing the wives a favor,taking care of thier men in the bedroom while they prefer to go shopping
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